Why are Russian girls looking
for husbands in the USA? There are many speculations and rumors, but when
it comes to the truth about Russian girls looking for love and marriage in
the USA, it is very simple. All Russian girls’ purpose and aim is not to
relocate to a country where there is a high standard of living and they
don’t have thoughts such as: Alright, the USA is a wonderful country. All
men there are wealthy and rich, so they will also have big money with my
future husbands. No, the majority of Russian girls are not thinking in
this way. Russian girls are willing to find a really good husband, the
right match for them. They are willing to move to Canada, France or the
USA to be with YOU not because they don’t love Russia.
One of the most striking
qualities of girls from Russia is their physical beauty. Maybe one of the
main motives about why many men argue that Russian girls are the most
beautiful in the world is that they take much care with their look. Not
only the way that they dress, which is very very sexy and feminine but
also the careful attention to their hair, nails and makeup.
The key to marrying a
girl is to remember by men from the USA that all relationships are based
on love, trust and kindness. Yes, there will be ups and downs, and being
in a relationship where cultural and language differences exists can be
tougher than most. However it also could be the one ground why you and
your Russian girl experience a exceptional bond that most men will never
get to experience. To defeat the challenges specific to marrying a Russian
girl, simply be prepared and know how to keep your Russian wife happy.
Dating a Russian girls will
cost you money. Each agency is offering services to you, not least of
which is the translation of emails and phone calls between you and the
girls. It will cost money. If you use the reputable services and sites,
you can rest assured that the girls are genuine. However, keep in mind
most Russian girls speak English (they all learn English in Schools) and
some of these girls might already visited the USA as a tourist.
We know and understand that
sex is an important issue in men’s life in the USA and that sometimes
people are not well-matched partners in regards to this. Differences in
sexuality can even guide to unfaithfulness and in some circumstances even
to a divorce. But we recommend you to discuss everything about such
intimate topics after personal meeting when the moment for this subject
becomes natural, normal and unforced. When a man and a girl love one
another and spend time personally with each other, then this matter is a
usual one to bring up. We believe that maybe it’s even not essential to
discuss this matter, because your meeting will decide everything itself.
The chemistry between you and your Russian girl is very important.
There are a lot of divorces in
Russia not because the economical condition is bad there, but because men
drink and run around on their wives a lot more that most men in the USA
and other Western men do. They do not trust one another. In contrast, Men
from the USA have a good reputation in Russia for being superior
who treat their wives well and are usually loyal to them.
Visit of the restaurant is a
holiday or a special event for a Russian girl. If you arrive to Russia
from the USA to meet your girl, make your meeting as a fairy tale for her.
She has to experience that you are that only man she was waiting for so
long. Make your meeting unforgettable holiday. And don't be afraid that
your adored will think that this holiday will last for the whole life.
Remember if you offer most
Russian girls material wealth, then the mass of girls will feel
uncomfortable and will think that you are trying to buy them. For them, it
is more significant what kind of feelings you have towards them, and that
you possess love, care, respect, understanding, sincerity, and so on.
Here are some quoted e-mails
we received from our visitors and members:
American girls, South
American girls and even West European girls are all jealous obviously.
It's a girl thing I must say. It's universal. Also East European girls are
jealous and mean when they see their men marrying foreign girls, this is
especially true with Russian girls. It's human nature and there's not much
you can do about it.
- Russian girls, are a way to
make money off of the USA they aired it on dateline do not buy into it.
It's another way of duking then the USA if you love your country then go
to myspace and get you a red blooded america it's faster and much cheaper
or if you want female loyalties than i suggest a Mexican or a foreigner
but never mother russian the leftist wants you to think it's ok but the
left has going to far left.
- Why are Russian girls
supposed to be the best wives?
It seems to me there is a tendency in our society that Russian or
Ukrainian girls become more and more popular. But I wonder why this is so.
I have recently visited your site and was surprised at how interested they
are in men from the USA. Is this really so? Are American men so popular
among Russian girls?
- I have been to Russian many
times and I know Russian girls well enough. One of my friends has a
Russian wife and they are really happy. I guess that this is actually true
that Russian girls can make the best wives in the world. Those who do not
want to admit that just do not know them at all. Of course there are bad
and good people in any nationality, but mostly Russian girls are so
marriage minded and family oriented, caring, loving, and devoted to their
spouse. That is the fact.
- I don't think that Russian
girls are supposed to bet the best wives. It is more likely that since the
fall of communism in Eastern Europe that just like the rest of the world,
there is a wide gap between the hive’s and the have-not's. There are many
Russian girls that are looking to get out from under their situation and
there lots of shady organizations and websites that we specialize in
"helping" these girls find true love with men from the USA. Many girls
that choose these paths find themselves basically sold to someone in a
foreign country... and in the worst cases, into the sex trade. Now it can
probably also be said that there are more traditional cultures out there
that probably raise girls to be more submissive to their husbands and to
focus more to their thoughts and energies on to their men. That is
probably the main appeal for some men I guess. I can tell you that when I
grew up during the cold war there were lots of jokes about Russian girls
and wearing army boots etc... girls are beautiful all over the world and
men like to daydream about girls.
- I always understood that
Russian girls make the best wives, but I'm sure any girl will if the match
is right. A lot of girls want husbands form the USA as they treat them
better, are wealthier and many want to live in the west. Russian girls
will be among these, they are very often stunning and educated girls.
- Well about (mail order
bride) girls, I think maybe the Russian and Ukrainian girls were
well-liked in their day, but I think it's more oriental girls these days.
- In Russia, people are raised
to believe that all men in the USA are rich, and awesome, and that if you
live in the USA everything is great, so these girls post their profiles on
the internet and some fat assess finds them and starts writing to them,
(the dude usually is to lame to find a girl in the USA because American
chicks are too smart). Then eventually asks them to marry him, she
naturally says yes, this isss what she wanted, right? Then they get
married, and she lives with him and it's just like a normal marriage,
but... unfortunately some times the husband isn’t what they thought he
would be and it sucks, my relative has friends that are Russian brides,
some of them are happy with their marriage and some got pretty much
scammed like one of the girl's husbands makes her work two jobs while he
doesn’t do anything and she can't go back to Russia because she cant
afford it.. But.. this really should just be a normal marriage you have to
love each other wise it wont work. Maybe some Russian girls are naive,
they want a rich, American, nice, guy, who will also love them, they think
everyone is like that in the USA.
Here are some quotes from
Russian girls forums’ sites:
- I want to try one of these
russian girls websites. I cannot get a passport will they come here to
meet? Can anyone recommend a service that will be easy for me to meet and
marry a beautiful russian model quality girl and that doesn't require me
to travel to Russia?
- I won't lecture you as
others have, since much of what they say is lacking any basis in fact or
You have 3 things against you:
1- The 2006 IMBRA law, which
will oblige you to disclose why you can't get a passport (any criminal
arrests or convictions, restraining orders, divorces, etc). This have to
be done previous to you have contact with a girl. Note that any agency
which does not ask you to fill in the disclosure before you contact girls
is a fraud or scam site.
2- Single Russian girls rarely
can get a visa to visit the USA prior to marriage. Russian and Ukrainian
girls get rejected 99.9% of the time for visitor visas to the USA.
3- You can't apply for
immigration visa until after you travel there to meet your Russian girl at
least once, and it requires much more than a single visit to prove a
relationship for a visa.
- Do you think it's morally
reprehensible, and almost like prostitution? Or are you OK with it? And do
you think the idea of Russian mail-order girls makes your country look
bad? I always thought Russian girls preferred to marry decent Russian men,
so is it true that those who do go through the 'mail-order' process are
doing it just for the US visa?
- It's not prostitution, and
in most cases, it's not even about the visa.
It's more interesting when you
click on the third column, and sort the data by rank. You'll notice at the
bottom of the list:
- Lithuania 0,89
- Belarus 0,88
- Latvia 0,86
- Russian Federation 0,86
- Ukraine 0,86
- Estonia 0,84
The bottom of the list is
filled out by countries of the former Soviet Union.
In mathematical terms, that
ratio of .86 you see for Russia and Ukraine translates to 116 girls for
every 100 men. Or to be slightly less specific, it's almost as if to say
that 1 out of every 5 girls is unable to find a man to marry.
Now, think that when there are
tons of available girls, the men don't try as hard.
Think about that for a while.
Some of the most beautiful girls in the world, and they can't even get the
attention of a drunk man in a bar. As an USA citizin, that's hard to
imagine, but that's reality for many women in the former Soviet Union!
Now, let's look at a different
The girls’rights movement and
gender equality push in the US has removed much of the allure from the
average American girl. Instead of graceful, gorgeous, feminine creatures
that men fawn over, most American men are left to compete for the one girl
who still owns a dress.
American girls are loud,
assertive, castrating creatures, who think its okay to leave the house and
go out in public in their pyjamas! They've stopped being girls, and
they've stopped letting men be men.
So imagine how an
feels when he finds a beautiful girl, who is feminine and graceful, and
who lets him be a man! Imagine how he feels when she waits by the car door
for him to open it.
And imagine how the Russian
girl feels when she meets a man who pays so much attention to her! Imagine
how she feels when he doesn't ignore her or yell at her or worse...
Imagine how it makes her feel when he buys her a new dress, or says "hey,
let ME do the dishes tonight."
No... it's nothing at all like
prostitution. Sure, as with anything, you will have those who misuse the
system. There are going to be girls who see it as a golden ticket to a
visa, and there are going to be men who see it as a beautiful housekeeper
who will also have sex with you, and those people are unfortunate.
But for most, it is genuine.
They really do fall in love. And actually, they stay together longer than
an average American marriage! By the way I have several friends who have
married Russian girls.