Most Russian and Ukrainian
girls would agree that the easiest resource for finding a date is Internet
with its numerous
online dating agencies, instant messaging, and chat
rooms. It is also the fastest growing trend in dating.
Foreigners are a welcome and desired date for
Russian girls. However the
real dating is not just for a night or two and here is some simple advice
to keep in mind when you are approaching a local lady. Even if your
Russian girl speaks little English, Spanish, German or Italian there are
solutions to the problem that you should look out for, rather than be
determined the situation just won't work. LOVE will find a way, as they
Dating a Russian girl is an exciting experience for everyone. Here girls
are easy going and charming. They are usually considered "hot" by most
foreigners. In local customs, the phrase "Dating Russian girls" has its
reciprocal saying, which is dating men from other countries. For many of
them meeting someone who is coming from "abroad" is an exotic and
extremely desired experience.
The reasons are hidden in the background of the Russian traditions, the
economic situation in the country and most of all, the perspectives that
might be opened for the woman. Usually such kind of relationship is
opening brand new horizons for both sides.
Before starting the real matchmaking experience, men should know a few
important things about the traditions. Dating Russian girls, just like in
any other relationship in the modern world and countries with European
orientation, has its natural roots. It is preceded by the moment of
flirtation when you will try to impress your future fiance. This task is
not so simple because Russian girls are not so easy to pick up.
Before reaching the moment when you are actually dating, you should know
that offensive gestures or offers would never make their way to her heart.
When we talk about offensive offers, we are referring mainly to these for
paid company services or sex. Knowing how to approach the woman and touch
the deeply hidden cords of her heart is an art.
Simply learning the name of the woman and being able to pronounce it
right, with a proper Russian accent will not be enough for saying that you
have succeeded and she will fall in love with you immediately. After you
have predisposed your date, you will be expected to treat her with respect
and attention. Dating Russian women sometimes means investing not only
financial resources, in order to keep her close to you and interested in
your relationship. Small or generous presents will not be enough and you
have to show your emotional engagement and attitude.
Passing the initial phases of dating Russian girls sometimes evolves in
meeting with her family or friends. To most men this is a real challenge
for the patience and results in a huge cultural shock. Local people are
noisy and ingenious. They are open minded and will be curious what had
taken you there. The language barrier sometimes prevents effective
communication and is considered a real nightmare for foreigners who are
unprepared for such an experience.
The Russian language for example uses a different alphabet. Although many
Russian women are ready for compromises you should know that
Russian women and getting along with their family is a big plus that will
take you to her heart and help you stay there forever.
In short, it is a pleasant and rich emotional adventure, especially if you
are ready to investigate all the Russian traditions with which you will be
involved. The dream might come true only for those who are careful, pay
attention to the customs and do not cause offence because being a
foreigner is not always an excuse of being discourteous. Always remember
that marrying or dating Ukrainian or Russian girls is a completely
different experience than marrying a resident of your country.