The first dating letter is the
most important. It must be interesting for your Russian girl to read. The
first dating letter should be composed in simple language (try to avoid
idioms, phraseology), should not be too short and formal. Writing the
perfect love letter is a great way to add romance to any relationship.
However, if you don’t trust your writing skills or find that every time
you set down with ink and paper you are at a loss for words, that doesn’t
mean you can’t write a beautiful and eloquent love letter.
Good humor is the best way to make reading fun but don't be a clown. Never
make jokes about the girl's appearance, her English, etc. Better laugh at
yourself than laughing at her. The letter should provide enough
information for the girl to conclude that you are the man she needs.
When introducing yourself, don't forget mention such details as your
residence, age, height, weight, education, religion, children and
interests. Mention some special personal qualities, what points you out
The most important thing is what you expect from a relationship. As
Russian girls are looking for a marriage partner they need assurance that
you are ready for a serious relationship, that your aim is to set up a
home. Tell her about the girl of your dream. It could give a better
introduction than many other words.
Also explain why you decided to write her, why did you like her? Make her
some simple and yet pleasant compliments. It could be similar to this: You
make the impression of a very smart (sincere, kind, understanding ? pick
yours!) person. I feel you are the one I had been looking for.
Try to be positive. Never write about personal problems in the first
letter, about unsuccessful experience in relationships and problems with
health. Don't state any sexual questions. Before asking her questions,
dating profile carefully. Don’t forget about sports. If you don’t
like to do sports, you probably love to watch it on stadium or TV.
Sometimes girls provide some
details there. Include questions she would
want to answer. You could offer her discussion of some interesting topics
in case to know her better. For example: Tell me about your family. Is
there any brothers or sisters? Do you live with your parents or separately
from them? Tell me about your job.
Do you like it or are you making plans for finding another one? How do you
spend your days off? Do you like camping and nature? Do you have a dacha?
(Note: In Russia and Ukraine, dacha means a small garden cottage with some
land located beyond the city limits.) Do you like horoscopes? Do you
believe in compatibility by the horoscope? Tell me something about your
city. What does the ideal family looks like? What did you think of your
future family when you were a child? Questions and some notices, promises,
announcements give her the feeling that you are interested in
corresponding with her.
Closing the letter by asking her for response (for ex. I'm looking forward
to your response. I hope we become friends.) These words expresses your
serious intentions regarding your communication.