know Russian woman online: the criteria for success
Unfortunately, there is no recipe for
the success of getting acquainted with an Eastern European woman. Every
love story is unique. Every lady, just like every man, is very individual.
This means that each of us has our own ideas and wishes regarding mate
choice and relationship.
Which person should become my life partner, in what way do I imagine the
relationship, which messages or communication attempts I will be skeptical
and open to which. Not as easy as you think!
However, there are a few basic rules that increase the chances of success
on an online dating market.
This requires self-criticism and self-analysis from you.
Here are criteria that
you should consider when getting acquainted with a RUssian woman.
Good profile picture
In online dating, your profile picture is the first thing the ladies of
you perceive. The first impression decides whether a beautiful Russian
woman answers you or just politely canceled.
What does your profile look like? Do you have enough information in it or
does it seem to be unimportant for you? An empty profile can mean that you
have no time or that you do not mean getting to know each other seriously.
Believe us, the ladies read the information in the profile and here you
can score points.
Show the lady your interest and send her a message!
"A man must be a man and take the initiative". This attitude is shared by
many women from Eastern Europe. They are not emancipated and still have a
traditional idea of the relationship between a man and a woman. When
getting to know each other online, they expect activity from the men : the
first message, the invitation dialog in Skype, the suggestion for the
first meeting, etc.
The ladies are often passive and wait until the man "selects" them.
A Russian woman can find a man interesting, but this will rarely show, or
dare the first contact. The background to such behavior is the education
and social environment in which she grew up and lives. The ladies believe
that if they show initiative or interest, they will be perceived as an
intrusive person. In Russia, for example, it is said that the beauty of a
woman is her modesty.
Of course there are Eastern Europeans who show initiative themselves. But
if you have not achieved any success in getting to know yourself, ask
yourself the question: Will I first write the lady or wait and hope for a
One more thing: The man who writes first is a self-confident and dominant
man in the eyes of an Eastern European. For ladies who have a traditional
family portrait, this is very important!
An important part of the online acquaintance is the written communication.
It is important to be able to write interesting letters and get to know
each other through a "lively" dialogue. The first message plays an
important role. The more trouble you get for the first words, the higher
the chances of success. Do not use 08/15 phrases and use information from
your profile to get started. Maybe you even have the same interests or
characteristics. A tip from us: "Hi! How are you? "Or a message without
any punctuation - does not work!
Before you venture the next step and get to know each other personally
"live", you have to be able to communicate well by correspondence. That is
why it is important to open oneself for the lady by letters: Always ask
questions, answer honestly and be interested. Tell about yourself, without
the lady always has to ask. It should not sound like an interrogation, but
open and cordial communication. If there is no agreement between man and
woman at this stage, the next steps are impossible.
How to write the first letter for an Eastern European and what topics
should be avoided, you can read in the article "No-Gos in communicating
with Eastern Europeans" .
Who do you want to get to know and what are your chances? That requires
self-criticism because you have to be realistic in some ways. That is to
have a correct age idea of the dream woman. The days when the ladies
from Eastern Europe desperately searched for a Western European partner
are over. Often the ladies from Russia, from the Ukraine, Belarus have a
realistic idea of the age difference in the relationship: the age
difference should often not exceed 10 years.
The long - distance - team wishes you much success in getting to know each
And if you have questions or need help, we are here for you!