The topics of active dating and special
wishes of Russian women are addressed in the articles "What do Russian
women want to do with Western men?" And "Actively find a partner or rather
wait and see?" In this article, we focus on our own initiative , an aspect
that could be important for your dating and the understanding of Eastern
European and Russian women.Russian women differ in many facets from the
ladies in this country: For example, in the idea of a strict role
allocation in the relationship and family.
Russian women see
different roles in a relationship for themselves and their partners. The
man is always required to take the initiative of a moving role. Before an
Eastern European partner enters into a partnership with you, she would
like to recognize your initiative or your efforts. This is especially
appreciated by the ladies from Russia, Ukraine and Belarus.
A strong interest and effort gives her the feeling of uniqueness and
desire. You "conquer" your wife and when you impress her, she answers you
with her love and dedication. In other words, Russian women like
self-confident and active men who show initiative.
This all works well in real life, but what about the initiative when
getting acquainted online with Russian women?
Send first message
Show your interest and send a message to your chosen ones! Russian women
are reluctant to take the first step. Rarely do they show their interest
in you in the form of a first message. Rather, they open your profile and
give you a non-binding "Like". They want, and are used to, that the first
step starts from the man.
Showing sincere interest through questions and timely answers
When getting acquainted online, it is difficult to assess a person's
interest or lack of interest. The Russian lady wants to feel your genuine
interest in her. This is what you show her in communication:
Ask her questions and write her detailed information about your person and
Note: If an East European woman is constantly asking herself questions and
trying to engage in new topics of conversation, she quickly feels
intrusive and thinks that you have no interest in getting to know her.
Listen carefully and with interest. Remember important information about
yourself and your goals.
Express the desire to meet
It's no big secret that a stereotype has spread to Western Europeans and
online dating with Russian ladies. To our regret, many ladies think that
men who are looking for a woman online are only interested in having a
letter contact and are not ready for a real meeting in Eastern Europe.
Certainly no reasonable person will book a trip to Russia after just a
short correspondence. But the lady should feel that you have this will and
are ready for it.
You should address this sooner or later and do not wait until it invites
you . The initiative should come from you and we are pretty sure that
mentioning your willingness to visit them will leave a good impression ;-)
Let them know that you are interested in a real and not a virtual